Thursdays With Lawrence: Lawrence Talks BDSM!

I guess I need no further introduction, as Alex has kindly taken care of that for me. It is true, I am a Dominant and actively participate in BDSM. Maybe we should start at how and when I became part of the BDSM world and what led me to it. I’m also wondering if this will be a multi-series article, spread over several weeks, as previous articles have been.

How about we start out by me immediately defending myself. It is actually sad that I have to add this disclaimer because we live in a society where everyone is offended by everything. I am not a woman abuser, a chauvinist or any of those other negative stereotypical definitions that tend to be associated with Dominant men. I do not hate women and I do not view myself as more important or valuable than a woman, or anyone else in the world at that. I actually commend anyone, regardless of gender, who succeeds in life, who achieve something great and who just generally do well in life.

But I do like to be in control. I am a natural-born leader. I enjoy taking charge and leading the way, not only in the bedroom, but also in everything else that I do, especially my profession. And yes, not only have I seen all three films in the “Fifty Shades” trilogy, but I have also read the books cover to cover.

The books and films have played a part in my inclusion to the world of BDSM, but they weren’t my start. I became curious when I came across a video online. Before then, I was not familiar with the term BDSM. However, the video both highly aroused and intrigued me. I began researching the topic afterward and at first, it made me nervous and I did cringe at the more extreme forms, but I still wanted to know more. Something was pulling me into that world. I still don’t know if it was just innocent curiosity or my attraction to control and power. Maybe it was both.

I continued to watch BDSM videos online. I eventually joined a BDSM forum and began to interact with others who are a part of this world. I learned a lot. I had a lot of questions, my thirst for knowledge on this topic was unquenchable. I wanted to know everything, good and bad. I knew right away, in the beginning of my research, that I was naturally a Dominant, or Dom.

Eventually, when I became comfortable enough, I started going to what are called “Munches”, where you meet others in the BDSM community at a local restaurant. That opened the door to local clubs and dungeons. I met many people, from all walks of life, who shared the same interest as me. I started and entered Dom/sub relationships. Some lasted a while, others did not. I made mistakes and I learned a lot.

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