Thursdays With Lawrence: Lawrence Talks BDSM (Continued)

Now that we have gotten the subject of how I came to BDSM, let’s talk about some of the things that I enjoy doing in this post. Before we get to that, to answer your question: yes, I do have a play room in my upscale Manhattan apartment as well as my vast estate outside of Paris, France. No, I have not been to Amsterdam, nor do I have any immediate plans to go there at this time.

As a Dom, naturally I enjoy discipline. However, I enjoy rewarding my submissives/subs, even more. Having an obedient sub is a major turn on for me and when she does well, I reward her well. However, when she is disobedient or does something to my distaste, I will administer discipline for sure!

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Some of the rewards I have offered my previous subs are:

-Romantic dinners at the subs favorite restaurant, my choice restaurant or at my apartment.

-Jewelry and accessories

-Cars

-Luxury vacations

-Clothing

-Electronic Devices

-Rent or other bills paid

-Financial debts paid off in full

Discipline that I enjoy administering is as follows:

-Spanking with a crop, flogger, belt or my hand

-Bringing my sub close to orgasm and then ceasing activity

Keep in mind that the discipline is slightly different than the stimulating activity during the session, although the same methods are used, just in a different context. Discipline is to let my sub know that I disapprove of an action or behavior. When I use the same methods during sessions, it is to bring pleasure to both myself and my sub.

Rewards and aftercare are on a similar plane. Not only do I offer rewards outside of the play room, but I also make sure to do so when administering aftercare, although the ones with aftercare are more for my subs emotional well-being. When I am providing aftercare, obviously after a session, I tend to show my more loving side.

Some of the aftercare that I enjoy providing are:

-drawing a warm bath or shower and cleaning my sub

-joining my sub in a warm bath or shower

-massaging my sub

-holding my sub in my arms

-caressing my sub

During sessions I enjoy some of the following activities:

-spanking/flogging my sub while she is either bound to an overhead metal bar or laying

across my lap

-binding my sub to an overhead metal bar, cross bar or bed

-tickling my sub with feathers and other soft items

-quick smacks with a crop to my subs genitals and breasts

-blindfolding my sub

-using a bite or breathable ball gag on my sub

-using nipple and clitoris clamps on my sub

-anal play with anal toys on my sub

Now this does not cover everything that I enjoy doing, but it does give you a pretty good idea and a damn good introduction into things that happen while participating in BDSM sessions.

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